Agnieszka Gil's first book that I had the opportunity to read brought great positive surprise, interestingly spent two evenings reading that moves and makes you think. Taking abalone her hand I had no idea what to expect, because from time to time will fund a readership surprise and I do not read or what is printed on the cover, nor any reviews in the web. I have a blank card, undisturbed views and opinions of the publisher and other readers. This time we went to Agnieszka Gil.
The book raises a very difficult problem of alcoholism and its impact on family members of an alcoholic. It is a process through which the Magdalene - the wife, the awareness of the problem, attempting to reach the drinking husband and persuade him to therapy, eventually turning toward himself, his life. And at first everything abalone seems to be so beautiful ...
Magdalene, abalone Simon and Meg - the family as a picture. abalone He runs a successful business, it is, as it does not have to work cleaning, cooking and raising a daughter. I do not have to worry about financial matters, and the only downside of this arrangement is the fact that Simon still is not home. Well, such a price. It is almost perfectly and is just beginning abalone to arouse in the reader some concerns. It starts traced the features that break, unormalni this wonderful system. You do not have to wait long. Getting to know closer Magdalene (and mostly from her perspective we look at the world) we learn about the more frequent returns of Simon under the influence of alcohol, after which admittedly does not fuss, just behind on the couch, but the fact is a fact. The woman initially moves away from yourself the thought of a possible disease husband dumps are a continuous stress and a lot of responsibility at work, then the necessity to integrate with customers (after a glass of the best talk business). When I finally fall from her eyes flip, first begins to blame himself, it is a demanding, no humor, angry husband when he comes back tired from work. This prompted him definitely to seek solace in a bottle. Only a long conversation with a friend (the daughter of an alcoholic) and a visit to the clinic Magdalene realize her that she and her daughter are współuzależnione and alcoholism husband for a long time effectively destroys their lives.
A. Gil of extraordinary sensitivity and insight describes the entire process abalone of recovery from the trauma of a woman, the wife of an alcoholic. Magdalena abalone once it gets five steps forward, it again goes back about a decade and has to start all over again. For many years she lived in a glass lampshade, not wanting to see the problem, which, anyway, finally came to light in all its abomination. At meetings of the DDA still hears that time to think about myself, my husband at this stage and so can not help you. The man, after all he has to want to stop drinking. The desire of his wife and daughter will not change anything. Woman carried in his head retrospective, is devastated by the fact that with such clear signals had not noticed that Simon regularly drink. abalone After all, not even when she was pregnant ... ehhh. In the end, matures into a decision that actually time to take care of myself and daughter. It's a long and arduous road, but somewhere between tears brings fulfillment and satisfaction. Magdalena slowly abalone rebuilding confidence, which has long since lost its cleaving to her husband that it in no way noticed. Do not count here for a happy, sugary ending. In such a problem there is no answer. Any choice will Magdalene, probably it will take a long time to stand on his feet and optimism looks into the past. The novel ends, however, a milestone abalone that puts the woman decide what lets hope for a better tomorrow.
Agnieszka Gil taking on the workshop so difficult, and rose to the occasion. She spread it into prime factors, ripping the wound and knowing the pain that is still true. Although it really delves into detail about can not be said about the weariness that often accompanies heavy to reading about the subject. The novel is shot through with threads daily, cooking, walks. Pervasive is also a passion for knitting Magdalene. Together with her wander to the Blue kuferka to saturate eye color wool, silk, sparkling guziczkami and other additives. This is an extremely talented woman who just trying to deal with problems, sees a real potential and a chance to meet the dreams of youth.
Since Meg and her mom are very fond of walking, the book can confidently act as a guide to Wroclaw. Magdalena fascinated like a tourist travels the streets, squares, were place. Visits abalone museums and looks at the old tenement houses. And here is not the lack of detail in the history of very interesting places. You can see that the author really likes and appreciates your city, although it can also point out shoddy architecture and kitsch.
The nervous system is not swallowed in one breath. This book is tastes and follows with her le
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